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      • #1.Envision yourself
      • #2.Ask the “what” questions
      • #3.Strengthen your brain
      • #4.Ask others about their perception of you
      • #5.Keep a journal
      • #6.Practice mindfulness

      What is self-awareness and how to develop it

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      • #1.Envision yourself
      • #2.Ask the “what” questions
      • #3.Strengthen your brain
      • #4.Ask others about their perception of you
      • #5.Keep a journal
      • #6.Practice mindfulness

      Envision yourself

      Visualize the best version of yourself. "Ideal selves reflect our hopes, dreams, aspirations, and speak to our skills, abilities, achievements, and accomplishments that we wish to attain.” (Higgins, 1987; Markus & Nurius, 1986.) As you lean into your strengths to become the better version of yourself, you can use this idealized self to keep moving in the right direction and not be distracted by setbacks and other obstacles.

      Ask the “what” questions

      At the core of self-awareness is the ability to self-reflect. However, the Eurich group contends that most people are going about reflection in the wrong way. The trouble is, we ask ourselves the wrong questions. In our attempt to resolve internal conflict, we ask, "Why?" Yet there’s no way to answer that question since we don’t have access to our unconscious. Instead, we make up answers that may not be accurate.

      The danger of the "why" question is that it sends us down the rabbit hole of our negative thoughts. We focus on our weaknesses and insecurities. Consider Amy, a new junior executive who has difficulty speaking up at meetings. She may explain her experience to herself by thinking, "I don't speak up at meetings because I fall too low in the corporate food chain. No one's going to listen to me."

      Asking the "what question" puts us into the objective and open space of considering all the factors influencing a particular outcome. For example, instead of “Why don't I speak up at meetings?” we could ask:

      • "What were the interpersonal dynamics in the room?"
      • "What was I experiencing in my body at the time?"
      • "What happened that caused me to go into my old story of not being good enough?”
      • “What can I do to overcome my fear of speaking up?"

      This kind of introspection allows us to look at behaviors and beliefs for what they are. With self-awareness, we can examine old patterns and stories that do not serve us, and then we can move on. Asking the right questions empowers us to make different choices that bring different results.

      Amy decides to make a plan because now she understands that she has a chance at overcoming her problem.

      • She's going to find out more about the content and goals of an upcoming meeting to become more confident in how she can contribute.
      • Rather than being consumed by imagining what others are thinking about her, she'll actively listen for cues to ask meaningful questions that move the conversation forward.
      • With a heightened awareness of the cues her body is giving her signaling fear and anxiety, she’ll name the emotion at the moment and choose not to be overwhelmed by it — one giant step to self-awareness.

      Strengthen your brain

      The amygdala, also called the primitive brain, was the first part of the brain to develop in humans. It functioned as a kind of radar signaling the need to run away or fight back. That part of the brain is skilled at anticipating danger and reacts before we can even name a negative emotion. Our heart races, our stomach tightens, and our neck muscles tense up.

      Your body's reaction is a tripwire signaling the pre-frontal cortex to register or name a negative emotion. If you bring awareness to your physical state, you can, at the moment, recognize the emotion as it is happening. Becoming skillful at this rewires your brain.

      Naming your feelings is critical in decision-making. When we let our feelings overwhelm us, we can make bad decisions with unintended consequences. Naming your emotions allows us to take a "third-person" perspective to stand back and more objectively evaluate what's going on.

      Let's bring this home with an example. You, a self-aware person, are having a conversation with someone and receiving some negative feedback. Your heart starts to race, and you're feeling threatened. You say to yourself, "I feel like this person is attacking me." But, before you cry or go ballistic, you stop yourself and hear the person out. You discover that this person had at least one good point and start up a different conversation, one that is mutually satisfying and productive.

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      Ask others about their perception of you

      Now that you've discovered that feedback doesn't have to be scary, ask other people how they perceive you in certain situations. Getting specific will help to give you the most concrete feedback. Get brave and ask them how they would like to see you behave.

      Exercise: Pick out a scenario(s) you would like to receive feedback on and list them.

      Make two columns.

      Column A: How I see myself

      Column B: How others see me

      In Column A make a list of words to describe your attitude and behaviors at the time.

      Then, ask your feedback partner to do the same and record those responses in Column B.

      Look out for discrepancies. You may have some blind spots that need attending.

      Keep a journal

      Journalling is a great way to pay attention to what's going on in your private and public self. It will also help you to recognize patterns that either serve you or not. You may use these prompts:

      1. What did I do well today?
      2. What challenges did I face?
      3. What was I feeling?
      4. How did I respond? In retrospect, would I have responded differently?
      5. What strengths did I use to keep me focused on the best version of myself?
      6. What is my intention for tomorrow?

      Practice mindfulness

      Mindfulness is a practice. It helps you be aware of what's going on in your mind, body, and environment. Meditation is one of a few practices that you can insert into your daily life, and practicing mindfulness is a wonderful tool for developing greater self-control.

      Here are some ideas of mindfulness activities to get you started:

      • Practice deep breathing
      • Name you surroundings
      • Organize your space
      • Draw or paint

      The road to self-awareness is a journey. The most self-aware people see themselves on a quest to mastery rather than at a particular destination. As you move forward in developing your self-awareness, ask yourself regularly, “How will you move toward the best version of yourself today?”

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